Each stage of parenting presents its own set of challenges. Balancing positive and negative reinforcement while managing your own emotions can be tough. Often, taking care of your mental health takes a backseat to the myriad responsibilities you’re juggling. While this is understandable and may feel necessary, taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of your children. In fact, I would argue that taking care of your mental health enables you to be a better parent. If you’re wondering what taking care of your mental health entails, here are a few tips for you:

Recognize your emotions. 

Parenting often involves navigating strong emotions. Recognizing these feelings is the first step toward emotional regulation. Start by asking yourself: What emotion am I feeling, and what triggered it? Where in my body do I feel this emotion? 

Regulate your emotions. 

Once identified and labeled, you can begin regulating your emotions. Strategies like deep breathing exercises, mindfulness techniques, and journaling can be helpful. Additionally, learning to regulate your emotions as a parent can help your children learn to regulate their emotions as well. 

Prioritize self-care.

Engaging in regular self-care activities is crucial for mental well-being. Self-care doesn’t have to mean elaborate skin care routines or expensive spa services. Simply engaging in relaxing activities that help you unwind, such as reading before bed or taking a short solo walk, can suffice. 

Healthy sleep hygiene. 

The average adult human requires between 7 and 9 hours of sleep per night. Chronic sleep deprivation can lead to decreased cognitive functioning, difficulty regulating emotions, and health problems. Prioritizing sleep is crucial for overall well-being. Engaging in healthy sleep hygiene routines which include a bedtime routine, a comfortable sleeping environment, and a regular sleep schedule can assist with obtaining the appropriate amount of sleep.

Build Community. 

Building a supportive community of friends and family can positively impact your mental health.  Having friends to share both the struggles and joys of parenting can make a significant difference. Whether it's attending weekly yoga classes with a friend or finding other forms of connection, having supportive people in your life is key.

If you have built these practices into your life but continue to struggle with your mental health it may be beneficial to seek professional assistance in building coping skills that are tailored to your needs. If you are ready to schedule an appointment please click the button below.