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Decoding Insurance Coverage for Relationship Therapy: What’s Up?
Relationship Counseling Sara Livengood, LSW Relationship Counseling Sara Livengood, LSW

Decoding Insurance Coverage for Relationship Therapy: What’s Up?

The quality of our relationships directly impacts our mental health, and while improving relationships often enhances mental well-being, better mental health doesn't always improve relationships. Despite evidence showing the benefits of relationship counseling, insurance rarely covers it. Therapists typically have to bill under individual or family therapy codes, meaning only one person is considered the patient. However, relationship therapists see the relationship itself as the "patient," so billing insurance would be unethical and potentially fraudulent. This leads many therapists to offer self-pay services like 90-minute sessions or relationship intensives, allowing for deeper work. While this situation feels unfair, the investment in relationship therapy can be invaluable.

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Bids for Connection in Relationships
Relationship Counseling Sara Livengood, LSW Relationship Counseling Sara Livengood, LSW

Bids for Connection in Relationships

Maintaining connection in long-term relationships can be challenging as daily routines take over. To sustain intimacy, it's important to recognize and respond to "bids for connection"—small gestures that invite closeness. Responding positively to these bids strengthens your relationship, while dismissing them can create distance. Couples counseling can help if you're struggling to connect.

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Perpetual Conflict in Relationships
Relationship Counseling Sara Livengood, LSW Relationship Counseling Sara Livengood, LSW

Perpetual Conflict in Relationships

The Oxford American Dictionary defines love as “an intense feeling of deep affection” or “a great interest or pleasure in something or someone.” While romantic relationships often start with love, combining individuals with different values and backgrounds can be challenging. Unlike the neatly resolved conflicts in movies, real-life relationships face "solvable problems" and "perpetual problems." According to the Gottman Institute, 69% of relationship issues are perpetual, stemming from fundamental differences in values or personality. Managing these requires understanding and honoring each other's needs through open communication and compromise. Couples counseling can also help navigate these challenges.

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The Importance of Rupture and Repair in Relationships
Relationship Counseling Jenn Bovee, LCSW, CRADC, CCTP II, CCHt Relationship Counseling Jenn Bovee, LCSW, CRADC, CCTP II, CCHt

The Importance of Rupture and Repair in Relationships

Relationships often face conflicts, misunderstandings, and hurt feelings, even in the healthiest partnerships. The concept of "rupture and repair" is crucial in navigating these moments. A rupture is a significant breakdown in connection, caused by conflict, betrayal, miscommunication, and more. Effective repair involves open communication, taking responsibility, listening actively, expressing empathy, making sincere apologies, and reconnecting emotionally. The goal isn't to avoid ruptures but to repair them effectively, strengthening bonds and leading to more resilient relationships. This process applies to all types of relationships, including work, social, family, and parenting.

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